Help.

I'm in a steady 3 yr relationship with my BF, but then tonight my friend whom I've always eyecandied and had a little crush on asked me if I'm happy with my boyfriend. He said he likes me and he wants me to be happy and he feels that me being with my boyfriend is restricting my freedom (I don't hang out much with my schoolmates anymore). I should obviously draw the line but it led to me talking a lot more about my feelings than I should... I feel so conflicted now.... I need help... I feel like a terrible girlfriend... My friend wants to meet up for dinner tmr... I want him to stay in my life but I will never cheat on my boyfriend... What do I do?

I can't ask anyone else cos there's no one else I trust in real life.... I've always admired girls who had tons of admirers but now I realize it's not exactly a good position to have, especially when you're attached!!! :-(

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ninacchi #1
If you would have loved your bf, you wouldn't have ever thought of your friend in that way. Clearly, you need to meet up with him to see more of him, study him if you will; by going out with a male friend doesn't necessarily mean that you cheated on your bf, unless things get headed in that way *ahem*

Go out with him as friends and maybe you succed in clearing things up both for your situation and your friend.

hmm. good luck on that i guess. tell us how it went :)
exovip1993 #2
I have been in similar positions. Tbh, it's totally upto you! You shouldn't break up just because another guy looks a little more promising, and you shouldn't also be too severe with yourself and not explore just because you have a steady relationship. Ask yourself what exactly you want. Make sure that you're happy. For me, whatever decision I took, I never regretted it. It helped me grow. Good luck!
__blackpearl #3
well you have to chose, you have to decide which one you like more and want to be with.
just don't rush things.
i've been in a similar position and made a very rushed decision. I regretted it then.
good luck :D
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