Clash of fandoms

I was on a chat room with random strangers, most of them are kpop fans and I can't help but be bothered by this one girl. She asked me who is my favorite Kpop group and I answered her with all honesty.
"BTS. Yours?" I said.
"They ." And that did it, I left the conversation.
I mean who is she to say that. I don't like a lot of kpop groups out there but I don't insult them. I keep my thoughts to myself because if I word out my dissatisfaction someone is bound to get hurt.

Yeah, maybe for you they do , but I love those people. Kpop saved me from myself, kpop gave me hope, especially BTS. Why? Because they work hard at what they do, they are real people with real feelings who cares for each other as family and not just a group. So maybe they are ers, but those ers made me who I am now, proud, confident and strong.

I used to hide the fact that I am a kpop fan, now, I just don't care what people say. I'm crazy? Maybe I am, but even with all those bull I will not disappear that easily.

They ? Yeah sure, say it all you want, but insulting another group doesn't get your fandom and the group you support up, it brings you and everything else involved down with you. You might feel all high and mighty by telling people of different fandom how much the group they support but I do hope you know how much it hurts us. If I do that to you, will you be happy? I know people like you, you do things to other people but when what you did bounces back and happens to you too, all you can do is get mad and curse.

I am not like you, I don't get satisfaction from other people's misery. You're not an almighty person, were just equal, no, that's not right, I'm not like you, you are lower than dirt because of what you are doing. If you think pulling other people down will get you higher, then you're terribly mistaken, because sooner or later someone is bound to do the same to you and pull you back to where you came from. That you know? So I hope you stop with your insults soon.

I'm not God nor am I a saint. Just like you, I am a human being and just like everyone else, I have feelings.

I am a proud Army, Starlight, Sunday, Exo-L, and I support a lot more groups and solo artists.
I am a proud kpop fan.

If I am hurting someone or anyone by saying this then I'm sorry for being insensitive, but I've had enough of this fandom wars.

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emmetropia #1
Exactly. Why can't we all just get along?
These days some fans are scared to say they are part of a particular fandom because of the fear they'd get bashed for it. And kudos to you for being proud.
angelicbaby #2
Who dat who dat who dat