Valentines tag??? What is this????

Why must u tag me, I have only so many friends and no love life.

Tagged by PalmerPie thnk u, u lil

Tagging Bubbl3s321 only bc i can't think of anyone else to tag atmmmmm the pressure is reaaaaal (i kno u won't do it but still) and the only other person i talk to tagged me so... headinthebooks u, r, taaaaaged /gandalf voice

 

lettuce begin

1.  Do you have a crush at the moment?

I wanted to make a witty comment with song lyrics but idk the song I'm trying to think of lol

2.  Have you ever been deeply in love?

I thought I was back in middle school when I was talking to this guy online, but hahhahahahahhaah no that doesn't count to 13 year old self.

does kyungsoo count

or jaejoong???

3.  Longest relationship you’ve ever been in?

Almost been five years now <3 It's a long distance relationship tho. And consists of me mostly crying at how perfect they are.

I've been married to bubbs for 3 years does that count too

4.  Have you ever changed for someone?

I've never changed for anyone but myself. Especially when I pee my pants.

5.  How is your relationship with your ex?

If we talkin 13yr old me, we don't talk (but we weren't a relationship we like, talked)

Otherwise my relationship with exo is great! It's an abusive one :----). They hurt me a lot, mentally.

I probably shouldn't joke like that..

6.  Have you ever been cheated on?

Many time. But it was usually my bffs back in highschool when I'd let them look off my paper. I was once smart

7.  Have you ever cheated?

Like twice?? Once on a math test. ACTUALLY. wait no.. WAIT YES. Both times were math tests, and that was my first and only time. I think it was algebra 2.. But like algebra is so easy why did i cheat??? Idk it's been a while

8.  Would you date someone who’s well known for cheating?

In the relationship sense, that would depend. If I knew they were genuinly interested in me then I'd give them a chance and talk about it in the beginning that I won't tolerate cheating. If he does it then goodbye bye baby (nu'est reference hahaha h a h  a)

In the test taking sense, yeah I'd date a cheater. In the game playing sense, no.. I wouldn't..

9.  What’s the most important part of a relationship?

Okay I agreed with the answer before mine, but I strongly believe in balance too. Trust and balance are both key to relationships. When the relationship is being dominated by one person, I find that unhealthy. When it's being dragged by another, that's also unhealthy. Both people need to work at the relationship to work as a whole unit, especially if they're serious about one another. My old roommate last semester was the kind of girl who wanted to be a stay at home mother while her husband provided for her. Granted her boyf worked at a grocery store and she would make him buy everything for her (she would say he had to bc it was his job to) but she also thinks a woman's greatest gift is to bear children, and she said I love you three weeks into her relationship afterthey had ... But like she was just trying to put everything on him, and they just had a very unhealthy relationship in my opinion. And the trust thing because why would you be in a relationship with someone you don't trust? You'd save yourself a hell a lot jealousy and negative feelings of the sort. Idk, I make it a thing in my stories to show the workingness of two in a relationship. Mr. Kim said it best in Urinal /sweats nervously/////  "... a friendship takes two people to work at together"

10.  Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?

At this point in my life, I would like to be in a serious relationship. But at the same time I've never been with anyone so I don't want to??? Like I'm afraid of relationships I guess and I don't want one.

11.  When you are dating someone, do you believe in being on breaks?

I think they're good if you're finding out whether or not you want to marry them. It's good to see if you can live without that person, and if you can't then I guess there's a nice little bit of destiny playing between the two of you.

12.  How many people have you hooked up with?

I don't hook up people. I hang them.

13.  What’s one thing you regret saying/doing in previous relationships?

Other than the nonexistant relationship you speak of, nothing! :D

14.  What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having ?

It depends on the kid tbh. If u a gud kid, then don't ever do da . if u a bad kid i dun cur.

Jk, honestly, the generations are changing so much that I really couldn't careless. I think the less the better bc lots of unplanned pregnancies for young girls. But as long as everyone is educated then I don't really care. STI's and need to be taken seriously.

15.  Do you believe in the phrase “age is just a number”?  

If he 50 and got doe I dun cur, make me a trophy wife. I need me a joonmyun, everyone needs a joonmoneytumblr_mqyri4lvCo1su8lpqo1_400.gif

okay while I was looking for the last gif, I found another of kris and his . here

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what does that feel like tho

16.  Do you believe in love at first sight?

Idk man, macaroni and cheese is usually love at first sight.

17.  Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet?

I guess?? Like I thought I was in love back in the day, but I think there's just something about it that makes me uncomfortable. Like what if there's no zing when you meet for the first time? I feel like a lot can go wrong, like months after talking to each other online just comes out like kerplop. I mean good for the people who make it work, but it's not for me. There are just some aspects that take away from real life relationships in online ones that I don't think are worth missing out on.

18.  What do you consider a deal-breaker?

Yeah, I gotta say respect. If you can't treat me right then sorry buckaroo, no can do.

19.  How do you know it’s time to end a relationship?

When the relationship turns absuive in any way. Mentally or physically. Or the spark just isn't there any more is a good moment.

20.  Are you currently in a relationship?

Yes, and she's called... /whispers/ laptop.

21.  Do you think people who have dated can be friends? 

Definietly. Even if it takes a couple years, it's always possible to talk things out so there's nothing bitter. Closure is always nice. Although easier said than done.

22.  Do you think people should date their friends? 

Okay, it's not that you should, but if you're genuinly attracted or like a person who happens to be your friend then i say yeah go for it! Just be prepared for possible reprocussions(sp)

23.  How many relationships have you had?

Two, my bed and latop. We're very intimate.

24.  Do you think love can last forever?

Kinda, yeah. Love makes the world go round. I don't think I'll ever stop loving my mom, and I'll never stop loving my best friend. Certain loves just don't get to see that light sometimes. Some people in romantic relationships don't get to see that and some do, some best friends don't get to see that love but some do. It's going to be different everywhere and with everyone.

25.  Do you believe love can conquer all things?

I mean it sure as hell won't get the dishes done. 

But knowing that I have a clean house with my partner makes aware of the idea we're together and we have equal share in the way we take care of each other. And that's a nice aspect of that love if that made sense. Otherwise, sometimes just a little more love in political affairs couldn't hurt. There might not be as much agression in the world, but it can't be helped with what it already out there. Love by itself can't conquer all things, the people behind it and using it to help forward themselves can, though. If that makes sense... Idk wtf I just said

26.  Would you break up with someone your parents didn’t approve of?

Yes and no. My aunt actually asked me this over the summer when I went on this big family vacation (where urinal was actually born lol) I think I would have a good judgment of who I am dating, therefore my parents wouldn't ever really disagree. And if they did, then I would try my best to see what they see and deem the situation from there.

27.  If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating, what would it be?

Uh.. I wouldn't time travel.. Something would get ed up and I wouldn't be me now. So no thnx

28.  Do you think long distance relationships can work?

Depends on the person. My current roommate is making it work and they're doing well. My old roommate, it wasn't working out so well. She had to drive home every weekend and he would come over every week, she was very needy. Some people have to break off the relationship bc they can't do it anymore, and some peopl have no problem with it. It really depends.

29.  What do you notice first about another person?

Um... Idk.. I notice a lot of things about people. Sometimes I notice the aura they give off, whether it's positive or negative. Sometimes their smile or eyes or their clothes. It all depends on what sticks out to me for each person, everyone will get a different reaction from me.

30.  Are you straight, bi, gay, or panual?

Honestly I don't define as anything. I don't like lables. I don't give a .

31.  Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?

Um.. Depends on the mental illness. I have a very high tolerance of patience, but I'm afraid I could only handle so much. But if i was serious about this person, then honestly, I'd give my all in supporting them. Idk this is actually a life changing question and it's making me anxious lol

32.  Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?

Friendships, yes. Several. I'm the biggest push over you'll ever meet. 

Romantically, nahhhhhh

33.  Do you want to get married one day?

I'd like to, yeah. But right now the idea is impossible in my head and I'm focused on me atm. Trying to figure out wtf I'm doing with myself, and securing myself financially. 

34.  What do you think about getting your partner’s name tattooed?

Lol no way Jose. Jaejoong said it best once but I can't quote him bc it's been a while lol. He wouldn't get the tatoo of a girl but he'd keep tvxq and aktf and all that stuff. Same though, I wouldn't tatoo myself in the first place (too chicken) and I don't want the name of someone on me from a relationship that could turn sour at any moment.

35.  Could you be in a relationship without ?

Honestly probs. But what do i know.

36.  Are you still a ?

I saw bits and peices of boku no pico. i don't think i'm a anymore

37.  What’s more important: looks or personality?

Personally, personality is very important. But if I find you attractive then that's a wonderful plus. Tbh I usually look to see if I find you attractive first, and then if I like the personality that ensues then I'm probs gonna smirk at thee from afar. But I wouldn't date someone based solely on looks.

38.  Do you enjoy love films?

Noooooooooooo. Hardly tbh. I mean I love Brokeback Mountain but otherwise love stories just get sooooooo cliche to me that I'm hardly ever satisfied. I avoid them if possible.

39.  Have you ever given/received roses?

Never given roses, I don't think. But my dad get's me roses for performances and Valentine's. Granted, i have a rough relationship with my dad, I appreciate that he gives me roses.

40.  Have you ever had a Valentine?

Only the spongebob or dora or madagascar notes with candy from elementary and middle school. One time my best friend made me a tone of meme valentine cards of dbsk and it was beautiful. They were decorated on my wall for like three years straight lol. wAIT. I GOT SKITTLES AS A SMALL VALENTINE GIFT FROM A THEATER FRIEND A COUPLE WEEKS AGO.  

41.  What’s your idea of a “perfect date”?

Ahhhhhhh this is the same answer as before but arnivals and amusement parks are a muuuuuuuuust. Or like haunted trails. I think carnivals are so sweet to spending time with a significant other. Literally I write about amusements parks all the time. Urinal, Truth's litle hero. and Amorea is getting one looooooool

42.  Have you ever read Romeo and Juliet?

Read and watched it one too many times.

I love Shakespeare, don't get me wrong, I love disecting his work, but I can only take so much of R&J lol. It's such a terrible plot.

Let's talk about Hamlet tho. I can read and watch that forever. Saw Paul Giamatti as Hamlet at Yale, watched the live broadcast of Bennedict Cumberpickles, watched the Brannagh version the Laurence Olivier and Mel Gibson version. Read it like three times, for class tho. 

43.  What’s more important: your partner or your friends?

They'd both be important to me. I wouldn't be that person who made plans ahead of time with friends and bail bc my partner was like "let's go get a movie tonight" And I wouldn't disclude my partner from my friends, they'd be right there with my friends.

44.  Do you consider yourself “romantic”?

Outside? No. Inside? Kinda lol. I write romance fics for pity's sake.

45.  Could you imagine dating one of your current friends?

Hahaha ew no

there is this one boy tho, he's more of an aquaintence and he's really pretty and cute.

46.  Have you ever been friendzoned?

I do the frienzoning excuse me.

47.  Which “famous couple” is your favorite?

We talking real or naw

bc kaisoo trumps all 

48.  What’s your favorite love song?

why wuld u ask me that, it's already taken me two hours to make this

I like Hollow by Tori Kelly, mainly bc I like the way it sounds. I wasn't really paying attention to the lyrics, but they're p lovey. Nightingale by Demi Lavato is love. Sinners by Lauren Aquilina is also v nice. Throw back to this one but Grenade by Bruno Mars is really nice too.

Love Yourself by J Biebs probs doesn't count but I really like that song.

Stacy's Mom and Wolf are equally great.

I like Promise 2014, like a lot. It's a very compelling and emotional piece and I feel a lot of passion in it. It's not a typical love song, but there's a lot of love in it that I adore. Goodbye Summer by Ksoo, Krystal, Amber and Luna is also sooooo cute.

As u can see I don't have any one favorite. lol i just listed all the songs from my itunes that i liked

49.  Have you ever broken someone’s heart?

I think I did? My best friend (who is not into girls) asked me out before he was discovering himself, and poor boy was crushed. We talked about it the other day too omg, yeah he was kind of heart broken. 

50.  If you’re single, why do you think you are?

Honestly, I don't want a relationship. A. I don't think anyone could like me and B. I'm also not interested atm. If something happens in the future then so be it. But I won't go deliberatly looking for one.

51.  Would you rather date someone who’s rich but a douchebag or someone who’s poor but a nice guy?

Literally no, figeratively yes.

52.  Are you good at giving other people advice regarding dating/relationships?

I used to in late middle school into early high school. Then I stopped being good bc I stopped really caring for other ppl's problems. They all seemed... Pointless. They were bound to end sooner than later. And they all did mind you.

53.  Are you jealous of couples when you’re single?

Nah lol

54.  How important is it to make a relationship official (e.g. on Facebook)?

Personally, I don't particularly care. It's not really important. As long as my family and friends know then that's all that matters.

55.  Would you consider yourself “clingy,” “over-attached,” or “jealous”?

what's the diff between clingy and over-attach amirght or amiright

otherwise idk

56.  Have you ever “destroyed” a relationship?

yes. i wrote this yunjae once and it got messy.

57.  Do you think it’s silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?

Honestly, yeah. I do think it's silly. But I'm not going to laugh in your face and say "hahaha ur fine" while you're experiencing it. Heartbreak hurts. I know. Although, it isn't the end of the world. You'll find the one eventually who won't make you fell like that.

58.  Are you the “dominant” or the “submissive” one in a relationship?

Yo no se

59.  Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner’s birthday or your anniversary?

I know for a fact I would. I have a goldfish memory. I forget Bubbs and I's anni all the time.

60.  What’s your opinion on open relationships?  

I don't really care tbh. I wouldn't partake in one, but I don't care what others do

61.  What’s more important: your partner or your family?

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh depends on the situation lol and how serious we are about one another

62.  How do you define “cheating”?

the present participle of cheat

63.  Is watching while being in a relationship inappropriate?

for some maybe, for some not maybe. I don't and wouldn't but if my partner wants to I don't mind?? i'd b too scare to do any sort of do for a long time anyways

64.  Do you think Valentine’s Day is overrated?

Yes and no, it's nice to slow down and celebrate the special people in your life. but I also think ppl just get hurt too easily about it when they're single. The commercial part is over done yes, the whole, the bigger the better is meh to me. The more meaning something has the more I like it.

65.  Would you consider yourself a “cuddler”?

maybe idk i'm weird about personal contact. they'd be the only person i'd really every cuddle so they should feel special.

 

wow okay this was waaaay too long and I didn't take this half as seriously as I should have

I like tried putting this on a word document so i wouldn't spell things wrong but then i broke microsoft for a moment and I couldn't use it so the mistakes in this is probably greater than kris's . And I'm waaaaaaaay to lazy to proof read.

okay, if u read all this idk why u would but ur kinda awesome so yeah.

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PalmerPie
#1
but im ur lil <3
KRIS'S DIK DIK GIF HAS ME IN S T I T C H E S
AND HAVE U HEARD KSOOS DUET TELL ME WHAT IS LOVE
Mahrielle
#2
I lost it at the Joonmoney and Kris gif.
"What does that feel like tho"
starmyst
#3
"I hang them" omg.
23 - same bro same.
"I saw bits and peices of boku no pico. i don't think i'm a anymore" CRYINg.
this was entertaining btw -u-