Preps For War (Ok not really.. but yeahineedsomeinputcosholyunicornsidkwhattodo!) Look, I just Need Advice.

Heres the story. 

I have my school ball/prom or whatever you wanna call it coming up next month and my friends have like all been well prepared since October last year while I was the last one standing and chilling in the corner while they were stressing over dresses, hair, makeup, photographer and dates, etc. Anyway, I finally got my dress this week, (well i bought it online lol XD) and it just needs to arrive but other than that I'm good cos I asked a friend to do my hair and make up yesterday. 

WELL...

I THOUGHT WE DID. 

Turns out for the limosines here u either have 10 people or 12, and we have 11 so it's either we ditch someone or get someone else to come with us to make up the numbers. All my friends have dates and me and my other friend decided to go stag together cos seriously we dont see any point of taking awkward pics and what not, i mean the only good reason i can even think of for having a date is having a secure dance partner, other than that everyone is still going to be mixing around each other unless you are one of those gross couples who want to have some "alone time" and be all hella annoying with their PDA. (if you cant think of anybody you know who does that then... ahem....)

ANYWAY

BACK TO TOPIC. 

So after talking about it with my friends we decided that we didnt one to drop anyone because its kinda mean as well as rude, and agreed to just bring on another person. And that's when the tables turned. Since my friend Fei and I are the only ones practically solo, the whole group pointed out that since us we were the ones without dates we should be the ones to ask someone. We kinda like threw the responsibilty back and forth and finally we decided to settle it like real men.(well laydies X'D) 

Straws.

Andddddd

Guess who picked the shortest straw? 

Yup. I am the chosen one. 

I'm the only one who can bring balance to the force. 

*holds up lightsaber* LIGHT!-LIGHT!-LIGHT!-LIGHTSABERRRRR LIGHTSABERRRRRRR!!!~ no really, if i was a jedi I would've used my jedi mind tricks and changed the stupid limo companies mind about the whole damn policy. (we can't change cos we already booked and its the cheapest option out of other limo companies)

So, yeah I need a date, or well at least find someone to fill up the empty limo seat. 

But so far no one else I know at school needs a ride so that brings me to option 2, bring a date from outside school.

I have someone in mind, but we are not really close? Like we get along reasonably ok and we were quite good friends when we were younger before I moved primary schools and he went to a prestigious high school, but we are family friends. 

My 2 outside school friends actually suggested I take him and so did my best friend cos she's met him a few times. HECK! Even my PARENTS asked me seriously to ask him before, and gave them this stupid speech about being an independent woman and not needing a dude to " me" to some ball. COS I DUN NEED A MAN! I DUN NEED A MAN! CHINCHA?! (YES! CHINCHAAAAA!!!) I DUN NEED A MAN! I DUN NEED A MAN! JEONGMALLLL?! (MHMMM and here i am considering asking this dude. #ohtheshame my dad was even fanboying in the car when I told him the situation and he was like, "THAT'S MY GIRL! STEPPING UP RIGHT HERE! I'M SO PROUD! ASK SOON OTHERWISE HE'LL BE SNATCHED BY SOME OTHER GIRL!" really dad? REALLY?! -_-) 

Btw I'm seeing him this friday,so it's like ma only chance to ask him then. 

But the thing is, if it comes down to this option, idk how to? Like he has all the reasons to reject me (not that im scared of rejection but like come on, i dont really want the both of us to be put in an awkward position) being that we aren't close anymore, he has to pay at least $150 AUD for the actual event, another $35 for the limo fee and $25 if he wants photos too (actually ill pay for that) but, yeah in a way he doesnt really gain on benefit anything going with me? So is there even a point on asking him? Idm going by myself or with him in general (despite the limo problem and BSSB ways) but yeah... haha

Asking people on dates is so not my style XD it's normally the other way around lol. 

I'm open to anything guys lol XD so yeah please throw in your suggestions and thoughts about this lol.  

thanks!~ 

love,

-Aera

P.S I apologise if i didn't make any sense, im on ma phone. 

 

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catssss
#1
I really can't help you with this since I truly only speak to boys if I'm forced to (im a very very awkward turtle lol probably cuz im in at that age in which boys are also really awkward with speaking to girls) BUT YOUR SONG REFERENCES WERE ON POINT.
CaptSunRiser
#2
Just tell him the truth. It's not a date, you need someone else to make up the numbers and you're planning on going stag for the night. If he wants to try and take off with someone else, go for it. Otherwise he can just tag along. You, to be perfectly honest, couldn't care less. Tell him that there are costs involved, explain what they are, see if he's interested. Be that blunt with him and see what he says.