I get honestly annoyed when BangDae fans try to reach and say that our OTP is alive and thriving. It's not, and that's fine. Nearly every outsider can tell that Yongguk and Daehyun aren't very comfortable with each other. Conversations are short and Yongguk shares skinship with most of the members except for Daehyun. I've watched closely their videos: when Yongguk's near JongLo, he always makes it a point to put an arm around them. Himchan's friendship with Yongguk is blatant. Yongguk speaks naturally to Youngjae and they joke around well but when it comes to Daehyun, they don't seem to know what to say to one another. And this is fine.

DON'T PUSH IT. BE LOGICAL. They're awkward because their personalities likely clash, NOT because you crazy people think they have some sort of secret romance going on. It annoys the hell out of me when people try to push their awkwardness as a reason their ship is real. The OTP is dead, was dead from the start and it's fine. I used to ship BaeRi (Taeyang and Seungri) and it was always a dead ship but I jumped off the ship when the shippers went crazy and tried to pass off the fact that they don't get along as a fact that they have or some .

Yongguk and Daehyun probably aren't the best of friends and that's OKAY. I wonder if these people ever stop to step back and think about themselves. Imagine being in a project group with someone who has a clashing personality, and some random person keeps insisting you guys are in love. Stop that. It makes our ship look pathetic. There's nothing wrong with a ship having little moments. So what if DaeJae hugs every performance? So what if Himchan can get Yongguk to take the most selfies? Heck, Sleepy x Yongguk is probably the realest OTP out there. Who cares? At the end of the day, 99% of our romance ships are imaginary.

So stop spamming Daehyun or Yongguk with stupid BangDae conspiracy theories. It's embarrassing.

ALSO: 

Stop feminizing Daehyun.

He is not small-sized, so stop pretending that he hasn't grown to the point where he's probably the most muscular out of all the B.A.P members. Daehyun is buff and masculine, live with it. Stop trying to warp his appearance. Ask any stranger and they can tell you Daehyun's plain face is boyish and not at all feminine. BASICALLY, STOP PUSHING WHAT YOU WANT DAEHYUN TO BE ONTO HIM. 

It's disgusting. 

The only person who I can really pass off as feminine-looking and small-sized is Youngjae, but that's only now because back then, he used to be rather buff (but the fact that he has a pretty and androgynous face still stands). And this is being honest from the bottom of my super gay male heart. I don't like feminizing any of the members just for my own sick kinks.

*********I use the terms feminine and masculine loosely. In no way am I trying to say how a girl or a boy must look like, just how they generally look like.*********