Okay now as you can see the title let me explain when I say all of this when it comes to roleplay there are a set of rules like everyone knows but to be wrongly accused of being an ex player on one role play just because we have minor simalarities is utterly rediculous. No matter what, it's not your say who I am or I'm not If I say Im not that person then I am not,okay? Another thing is when you are being accused of doing wrong and when those people have "evidence" which is total bs and when that person try to reflect on there past faults and you also have people who dont like you as is for no reason or that they think you are a or a jackass so they all gang up on you (a reason to leave). Also when it comes to role play and lets say one admin goes psycho on a role player due to his or her opinion and blantantly screams at her making no sense what so ever is not an rp to be even in, Being an admin means to have a mature sense and making others cry, playing the know it all card or just the fact you can't be mature. If you don't mind me saying this but one of those rp's is hystricity now im not in anyway speaking for everyone there just from my own experiences but when the atmosphere changes and most of your best friends leave before you can say goodbye is sad and all the admins care about are the numbers then its like " why? " Because one the atmosphere gets utterly despressing people get less and less motivated to be there. While others get totally hostile toward new comers and barely talk to them even if the new people try, and admins try everything to get people in the up beat mood makes it hard to i guess. On the other hand people who have been there contemplate on wheter they should leave or whether they should stay, which makes more people clingy and try to hold on to what they have left. It's really sad to be honest but its really hard when you have over 200 friends on your list and you forget because you have to find methods to stay active. All I have to say is whether you are in a role play where you are single af or in a serious relationship or you are married to that person and you don't wanna leave them, make sure wether you are happy there or not, talk to that person and try to find a new rp together. Also if it is your first rp that you have been in still just think is it the same? just think those four works "is it the same" you may or may not understand but its just a rant thats all.