personal life maybe?

excuse the title. i know i'm lame.

so like a while back I made a blog post which was basically ranting about how I broke up with my boyfriend for like 11 hours before getting back together with him because his dad who hadn't even met me personally didn't like me because of my zodiac sign. Also with really personal blog posts, i tend to delete them so you won't find it. anyways, his dad had been bothering him to break up with me and so he did but we good now, still together and it's been a whole year. yayy.

So my boyfriend doesn't really live with his dad, he just lives with his sister and so one night he invited me over and he wasn't expecting his dad to be there but he was. and being the shy person that I am I didn't even say hi or anything just stood next to my boyfriend, which was probably something he didn't want to see. stupid stupid! also when his parents left, his step-mum kissed me on the cheek and I was kind of surprised but he told me that she does that with his sister's boyfriend so i was like okay. his dad also said to him as he was leaving not to do anything naughty with me. > < then the next day he told me that it was rude to go to somebody's house and not greet the parents and I felt pretty bad for a while.

after that day, his dad seemed pretty okay with me. he still doesn't like us together, still doesn't like my zodiac sign but he doesn't hate me at least. he's like to my boyfriend, you guys can still hang out and invite her over and stuff when you guys break up. uhuhuh i don't want to be just friends with him. it doesn't work like that. also sometimes he asks my boyfriend to invite me when they have parties and stuff but so far I haven't gone since he just wants to play games with his cousins.

so yeah, good things i guess? he's been working a lot lately and I haven't seen him in like a month or two. the last time I saw him was at school after his exams, which was short since I had to go to class quickly before I got caught on the wrong campus. he didn't even come to graduation because he forgot. my mum keeps teasing me that his dad is making him work a lot because he doesn't want him to come see me. ; n ; mama, why? 

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13seconds #1
wow but really bc of a zodiac sign? :/
but it's okay it takes time to get closer
with your boyfriend's family and you should
definitely greet his parents when you see them
it leaves a better impression anyway.
good luck to your relationship with him haha
and get married soon beb. ;;
pinkiepromise #2
Oh no... parents are always judging their child's significant other, and as crazy as this will sound, just don't give a damn about their input, honestly. You guys are together out of good feelings and it's not like you've done anything wrong to them. As long as you keep being yourself and show them that you have sincere feelings regarding their son and their family then eventually they'll come around and see the good in you. It may take a while, this won't be something that will magically happen overnight, but that's exactly what they want, they want to test you. As long as you (and your boyfriend, cause this isn't a one person relationship) put effort into coming around his family more and build any sort of trust or relationship with his family members then you guys will be okay. I also hope you've had this talk with your boyfriend as well, cause he has to know that a big part of ensuring that his family will even take a chance on your guy's relationship is that he can gives them a reason to trust his decision and believe that you are the right person for him. Good luck and I hope everything turns out well for you and him :)
IGOT7Babiez #3
Because of your zodiac? What even--
Ik the feeling tho. I liked this guy, but since I'm not Korean, not extremely pretty and etc. his mum didn't approve of me and... well... I suppose he and I keep in contact. He has a gf now tho. Shes so pretty. I mean-
My self-esteem got shot down.
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