What should I do?

So I chose to put on the story.. But I'm doing some tweaking to the 1st chapter. Making sure its done before posting it.. 

But this isn't what this is about. Afterall I made my choice with that. But it has to do with personal life and my family.. Yes I'm sorry if you don't want to hear about this. You can go on and turn away from this if you don't want to read this. But I feel I need to get this off my chest, because I'm to scared to tell my family other than my own Dad. But I'm to scared to tell the person that is involved. 

Afterall the person I'm talking about is actually known to get mad easily, and she usually yells and hits me sometimes.. leaving a bruise.. But She claims that she is just doing this out of "Love".. 

And well recently She got Strangled and choked by her boyfriend, I saw the whole thing.  She still with the guy.. And it erks me.. If I was strangled and Choked by my boyfriend, I would have just broke up with him and leaving him..
 I don't like the guy... Infact I'm scared of him, But I don't know how to tell her. In a way that she will actually listen. I'm scared that he will do it again and the next time, what if he goes to far? What if he kills her? 
 

I know she won't listen to me, afterall I'm her daugther I really have no say. (Yes I'm talking about my mother.) 

But I don't know what to do.. I'm scared of him. But somehow shes still with him, He is still coming to the house and she still is with him.

Nothing is changing and that night was scary, I still kind of have nightmares cause of it.. 

Sorry for bothering you.. You don't have to answer if you don't want to.. I just would like to thank you for listening. But if you could give me a suggestion... I would really appreciate it.. Thank you. 

- RemeRis96 

 

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9394DOKAI
#1
i guess no matter what, as her daughter that cares and loves her so much, you've the right to tell her about your concerns...
she should know what are in your mind and the feeling of insecurity with his existence...
just ask her for some mother-daughter time and voice out all your worries in your heart...she NEEDS to know this, seriously...
i'll say this guy poses danger not only to your mother but you too...

okay, i'm sorry that i couldn't help...and that's just my thoughts...
eunseokkim #2
Or you could call the police or talk to an adult, like teacher or something. Again, I'm not forcing you to do anything, just expressing my opinion.
eunseokkim #3
Honestly, I am in no position to say this, but she should actually listen to you. Of course, I won't make you do anything, I'm just expressing myself if I was in a situation as this one. I would go to my mother and tell her everything, it's her choice if she wants to listen or not. If she does, perfect. If she doesn't, the consequences will be of her fault. I did my job on telling her what's right and what's wrong, if she gets hurt, her fault. I warned her. I don’t have a situation like this, but I've had arguments with my parents and I've warned them many times, and it's their choice if they want to listen or not. If something bad happens in consequence of them not listening to me, I rub it in their faces (not really, I just say 'I told you so') In simple words, do what you think it's right.


That is just my opinion, you could think otherwise, tho. I'm not making you do anything, I'm just expressing my feelings and opinions