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I can't believe it. Until just now, I dated this guy, and I've talked about his problems as someone on the market in a previous post: link, if you care to read.

Here's the issues that lead up to me dumping him. Saturday night, I and two girlfriends go to a dance club. He had promised me Thursday to meet me at the club. I had told him the time we would arrive, three times! He never shows up during the night. He doesn't text me either, not Saturday night, nor all Sunday. I text him today and ask him, what the hell kept him away. His excuse is that he shows up with his cousins, doesn't find me, and leave nearly immediately. He doesn't text, call or try to reach me in any kind of way, but just leave.

Today, when I text him and ask what the hell he was up to, he isn't the least apologetic that he broke his promise. He simply blames it on the fact that "It is what it is", and then tries to apologize, not because he broke his promise, but because I'm "sad". He then tries to blame it on me, that I never said any time to him when, in fact, I told him at least three times. 

I become rather mad and feel disrespected, to say the least. So, eventually, I break things with him because of the fact that he cannot respect me, my time, my anticipations, feelings and wishes. I was harsh when I did it, but I did it because he needed a good wake-up call and realization. I have no reason to respectfully be polite towards him. You treat me one way, I treat you the same way. 

I should've known already from the first date that this was going to happen, when he showed up an hour late. He didn't apologize then, which showed that the disrespect was already there from the first time we had a date. No, thank you.

I'm over him and deserve someone a thousand times better! It feels good to have dropped him right before 2016, and I'm ready to step into the new year with an open mind and spirit. Single and ready to mingle, as they say!

This blog post represents my opinions, and my opinions alone