Discipline from parents (Open discussion)
I was having a conversation with my AFF friend Heme on FB and she asked for my opinion on child discipline and sent me to a link where this mom/dad put a piece a paper saying "You are grounded for playing on your phone past bed time and you need 500 points to get ungrounded. Here are the chores and the points that go with them"
I thought it was a great idea because it teaches the child discipline not to do that thing again, or learn not to get caught again.
But people in the comment section were being completely butthurt about it saying its 'too much' and 'harsh'. It really got me thinking. Why is this generation of parents such babies when it comes to disciplining their kids?
My friend wrote a comment saying, "This use to be my chore list. Not too harsh" and some lady gave her such a smart answer, "Well, then, this "get ungrounded" chore list wouldn't work for you since you were already doing this stuff, right? So your ungrounded chore list would've had to have been waaaaaaaaaaay worse, right? Bet you would've thought THAT was too harsh, then, just for playing with your phone after bedtime...right?"
I'm just completely dumbfounded. I use to get my beat for disobeying my parents and I turned out just fine, but these parents call abuse on other people if they see a child get spanked. It got me thinking that THESE parents who don't beat their kids are the reason why they have disrespectful kids who go out and do whatever they want whenever they want at 14.
It's these types of parents that you can spot real quick in a mall or grocery store. You can tell a lot by someones parenting by the way their kid acts in public. Some kids need their beat.
Lets have an open discussion:
What are your views on child discipline? What was your punishment like? How do you feel about these simple punishments being 'too harsh'?
Feel free to add in your two cents as well
Edit* I don't mean just physical punishment. It can either be lectural/mental/physical punishment. I know every kid reacts to a punishment differently. I'm more talking about 'what do you guys think about parents punishing their kids to set them straight compared to others who just let their kid do whatever they want cuz they don't want to upset them'
*Edit 2: When I mean Physically punishment. I am not talking about DOMESTIC VIOLENCE. I am talking about a good ol' fashion whoopin.
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