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Hey guys, it's been awhile since I've blogged about anything but this time, I think I just need opinions. 

I need opinions on s. I'm in need of these thoughts because I started liking this guy I met at church program, I won't say his name so let's just call him Hanson. At first, I noticed him because my sister noticed his friend, whom she thought was cute, but we weren't suppose to talk, as we were in line, so we were mouthing to each other. As it is, I'm very bad at reading what others' are mouthing so I just pretended I knew who she was pin pointing at but in my mind I was just...

 

But yeah, she was pointing at behind me, so I turned around into "Hanson" and his friend. Being the potayo I am, I thought it was "Hanson". At first, looking at "Hanson", I thought he was so ugly. I looked at my sister like.....

But as I keep staring at him (im a stalker potayto), my mind changed from...

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After we were seperated into class, in which he ended up in the same class as me, I learned that he's four year older than me. I was going to just.......

But I still wanted to date him, and started to wonder about how others feel about s in dating. I want to know your thoughts on s and if you were to date a guy older than you, what's the maximum difference between your ages?? 

Tbh though, no matter what the opinions say, I'd probably try to date him anyway LOL

But~~~~~ If you could kindly leave your thoughts or opinions about s in dating. I appreciate any feedback and opinions. I beg you to comment with baked potaytoes atop a unicorn topped with pepper. Mucho Luv~~~~

 

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exocat15 #1
Well, if you're under the legal adult age right now then don't date him if he's older than that... pretty self explanatory why. You could always be friends with him first and see if he's what you like. 18 and 22 I wouldn't necessarily recommend. But a, say, 27 and 31 no one would really think twice about.
peachywink #2
I agree that if your relationship would be illegal don't do it, you change so much body wise and mentally during highschool that I can say by the time I was a junior, freshmen looked like children to me. But that is only for that period once they grow up it's normal again. For me the maximum is five years....younger than me. I don't know about older as I've only ever had dates with younger men. Beyond 5 years I start to feel the difference in our childhoods and that just bothers me.
MissMinew #3
s depend purely on your own age. If you're 14 and he's 18, it's a no go. It's not that 4 years is a lot, it's because of how much people grow during puberty.
The older you are, the bigger an is okay. At least in my opinion.

And for myself, as a 23 yo woman, I find that around 30 is my maximum rn.
Of course there are other things more important than age in a relationship but ye, age matters to me.
Drowning- #4
That depends haha it doesn't really matter if y'all can get along
TypicalAuthornim #5
s are not that important.
JKNewsandDavidSo #6
I don't mind s, though the sad part for me is that Luhan and Xiumin( Both in ma bias list) have the same year as me ( Like Chinese wise, you know like horoscopes) I'm a horse and they're both horses too, sooooo that means they are 12 years older than me TT.TT
TailsOfLightning #7
s aren't that big of a deal. Four years is very reasonable between partners so go for it! I'd only be wary is it was about 6years and up. Good luck!
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