Can a liar be forgiven?

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I would like to see your point of view about this issue. Let’s have a small discussion :) 

In many relationships, guys approach girls with beautiful lies and vise versa! I understand that love may deceive people, but… would it be easy to forgive those who lied to us just because we love them?  

What do you think of those lies and can they be forgiven?

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clrerlenaize
#1
Depends on what lie .....
But i think, when you love someone that much, even though it's hard, in the end you'll forgive them :)

Bcs your heart can't hate that person
KayeAllen12
#2
/coughs/ Prof V /coughs/ XD
armyheartxo--peace
#3
Hahaha honestly stuff about relationship is not my thing but I'll just give an opinion. So...lies. Some lies are light and some are big. I would say it depends on the lies though I would try and forgive that person. It's not that everyone deserves a second chance. That's your choice whether you still wanna be with them or not. If that lie is big and you can't handle it, talk with that person and see if they would apologize or not. I truly hate people who don't apologize when they do something wrong XP If they are arrogant and ignorant about it, just break up with them lol I'm bad at these stuff really.
Sarouu
#4
Well it depends on the lie if it is a lie that its' not so big/bad it would be easy to forget, it may even need to be forgiven... but if it's one big lie the its so not true then it must not be forgiven, just because of love we don't need to be idiots or those stupid people who are blinded ignoring the actual thing, that there is a lie we're talking about... also big or small a lie is a lie but we can forgive the rediciulous ones but even those with much thinking... that's what i think ^^
Death_Silence
#5
Hmm.. Depends on his/her lie. What' the reasons behind their lie? But tbh honest, when we are in relationship, we often lie about something.. For me, I will forgive that person but I'm not gonna put my full trust on her/him again..^^
littlegirlbookworm #6
It depends on the lie. But yeah, people make mistake. Maybe he/she has reason? We don't know but we can always forgives people. Just forgive and forget. ;)
CaptSunRiser
#7
It depends partly on the lie and mostly on their ways after. If the lie is "We're just going out to a private dinner to celebrate your birthday, we're not going to a restaurant that I've secretly booked for 100 people for a surprise party, and the fact that all of your friends' cars are here is just pure coincidence" then yes, forgive them instantly because they want to celebrate an important day in your life. If the lie is pretty much anything else ... it's up to you. They may feel really terrible and want to make amends in their ways, but you probably won't be able to trust them quickly, if at all. They may have good reasons to lie to you, but at the end of the day, you need to decide if it's worth it to forgive them. It isn't easy, and you might remember it throughout the years, but it's a decision that only you can make, and you need to get as much information about it as possible. You need to know why they lied to you, what would have happened if they hadn't lied to you, what they will do to make amends for it, and you will probably need to know, for your own peace of mind, what else they have lied about.
taeminemily
#8
I think everyone deserved a second chance ^^ that it's my opinion