My mind is half for this one. (Sorry for late comment)
I'm not sure because I never had a close guy friend. It can be possible not to have feelings for each other but at the same time both of us/you will think of each other like their crush or something. So it is possibly impossible XP bleh ignore my opinion. I at this. But I would like to know how it feels to have a guy best friend.
i think it possible to have a boy as a best friend without having feelings. mostly becuz my closest best friend is a guy. and we share no feelings like that
I don't think it's possible. Being best friends mean having to share something special and spending a lot of time with each other which can trigger these feelings.
At some point, one party would think of the other "in that way". Not all feelings develop and end up as puppy crushes though some do over time. I don't think it's possible for one not to think of the possibility of being more than just friends when you're so close with each other...
I think it's possible to not have feelings for one another. Though, one of my guy friends, I did have a small thing for him but that was before we became really close. For the rest of my guy friends, we don't hang as much out of school but we do talk to each other a lot, and as far as I have known some have girlfriends and the rest don't have feelings for me and vice versa :)
One of my best friends is a guy and we have a lot in common. He actually had a crush on me but I knew it wouldn't work out for me so after almost a year he finally told me (although I already knew) and I agreed to try it out but it didn't.
We went back to being friends and it works out just great. We talk to each other about simply everything, like every little thing, and I know there is stuff only he would agree on doing like watching action movies or going to certain events. We both spend a lot of time at home and like stuff such as Anime, Manga and video games.
I know I can always talk to him about things I don't talk to my female friends about and vice versa.
It's really great and I think it's very possible to be just friends. Everyone around us always says we'll end up together but I would go crazy if I had to date a guy like him xD
His personality is really not my type and we wouldn't get along at all but being friends is no problem.^^
He now thinks so as well. He always says he likes the 'type of girl' I am but we wouldn't work out as a couple and we're both just fine with this.
I have many guys friends and some as best ones and I do not love one of the so do the others. So from experience I think that it's possible, mike and I have met through dance and we talk about anything what I mean it's that if I or he had a crush on each other we couldn't talk about anything he even knows who I like and I've known for his ex. Nothing special as for feelings
I actually have a guy as my best friend and we've been friends for years now lol. we talk about everything including his relationships and I give him advice when he needs it on what she wants as he does for me. we do have a bond but it's not like that and that line hasn't really blurred for us. yet, at least. it's been four years now and we still talk almost everyday and we motivate each other to always move forward. I wouldn't compare him to having a female friend because in my experiences, female friends talked and discuss your business without your knowledge, thus creating problems. having a true guy friend is something ever female should experience <3
I have two male best friends and I do believe it is possible to be 'just friends' without having feelings that cross the friendship line. What is your opinion?
I think a male and a female can be friends without romantic feelings occuring, I mean romantic feelings don't occur just because it's a boy and girl together do they?
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