Guys I would like to see different side of Views in this issue. Since angst is my thing (According to you guys and actually I find myself more with angst.) let’s have a small discussion on this issue. I would love to see your point of view and what you think. You can also use it as promotes :)

Why couple break up? What would be the worst situation of never making up again? 

Different Opinion and thoughts about the issue and replies 

soulheaart answered your question“Reasons for break ups!”

When you don’t love him/her anymore, I think you should break up before cheating. Also when you hurt each other too much, overall if you tried several times to work this out and you didn’t find any way.. When you don’t trust e/o also. What about you?

I think that when it’s over, it’s finally over, there is no way to “make things up”. I mean, I don’t yell that I break up with “him” every time we have an argument, I give us some time to fix things up. It’s impossible to make up when he cheated 

and when he don’t respect his relatives/entourage.

You made me open my eyes on a thing I never thought about! “When you don’t love him/her anymore”

It hit me so hard. I wonder is it easy to love someone and then stop loving them. I bet at the realization that there is no feelings is terrified more than the fact that you should break up with that person. 

Can really a person stop loving someone? With no feelings remain?? 

Scary to be honest 

I never experienced it myself but I saw some really close friends live this kind of situation... it was really painful for the other one but they were quite distant about it. (Have to admit that I thought they were some ty people at the time...) I think it depends on the person, also.

Oh! I’m shocked! They can’t even call it love in the first place then. I think it depend on how the person felt when it all started! 

Because may relationships started with a small like and not really love 

Maybe... I remember seeing them all lovey dovey. In first place, my friend wasn't sure if she wanted to date him 'cuz of his reputation but he was really lovely and good to her. All his friends told her that he was in love, for the first time, that they never saw him like this before. But as you said, maybe it only begins with a little like. I'm still trying to figure this thing out, my god... It look so unreal.

She just didn’t want to hurt him since she was his first love. I think she thought she could make it with him, but never found herself anymore with him. Relationships can start like this too. Feeling too bad to reject someone when he’s already a good friend to me. Which I find a torture for both of their feelings. 

He was hurt anyway and she wasted her time convincing herself she can love him.

mybtsworld answered your question“Reasons for break ups!”

the most used reason (that people don’t really admit) is that they didn’t love each other in the first place. maybe it was just a liking, just a crush or just the appeal. (that’s just one point)

Yes! a lot of those break up are because of that! But this also makes me wonder, being lonely makes you mix up between like and love?

chelemelons replied to your post“Reasons for break ups!”

The gut feeling of ‘this is wrong, why am I with you?’ And anxiety starts up for me, because then you actually look at the pros and cons of the relationship. But there is that 'moment’ of “did you really just do that?” And it snaps you out of the 'us

And makes you look at the relationship from a different angle, the only example that I can think of was when I was talking to my boyfriend of a year and a half, and we were in an all night argument on the phone/and Skype, 

We calmed down enough to really talk, and I was all for 'fixing’ everything that I couldn’t possibly fix. The moment he said “I have thought about killing you” kinda snapped me out of the fixing phase. And brought me back to reality, ending the

Relationship a week later. A friend of mine had a boyfriend refer to her dead mother, another had a girlfriend who told them they needed to support their drug habit.. Harsh stuff but sometimes it’s what they say that snap you out of the relationship.

So this would be about, trusting the wrong person in the first place. A one sided love where the other partner never felt serious in the whole relationship.

Because if someone really loved the other, even if he/she no longer feel the same way, they would never use a hateful words (I mean hurtful things that happen in the past, mention of someone’s who’s dear death…etc.) to hurt the other person. 

They would only use it in one case, if they, themselves, are hurt enough for getting revenge. by putting the other person in a great pain like them.

Like “Why I’m the only one who’s hurt in all of this?” 

mybtsworld replied to your post“Reasons for break ups!”

also there are much more reasons. when you two hurt each other way too much, or when you love them so much that you feel you must let them go(even tho this is the saddest and rare situation )

or when you don’t present the same interests anymore or she/he does things that you hate but they don’t even consider changing that fact.

YES!! I understand this because it also can happen with the people we called once our best friends! *Sigh* 

I would love to see your opinion too <3