Sometime in our lives, we’ve been hit by this sickness. A major mental health crisis. It causes insanity, madness, recklessness and stupidity. To make it short – falling in love. But it wasn’t Cupid’s idea. Because this crazy thing called love is all chemical.

First, a girl releases pheromones… that make men weak. And then men releases testosterone that drives women crazy.

This is the desire stage.

When your heart beats faster than usual, when your bodies are close together… that’s when your brain releasing norepinephrine.

Now, this is the attraction stage.

And then of course, we release oxytocin and vasopressin, which is like a cuddle chemical and the monogamy molecule. These hormones give us a sense of stability and security. That is why we keep on coming back to a certain person, until eventually, you’re already exclusive.

This is the attachment stage – where all your illusions of love finally come true.

But to most people, this illusion stays an illusion. Because no matter what they do, sometimes, you really can’t fight destiny. If it’s not for you, it’s not for you…

Like this girl named Jessica Jung.

My ex.