Rant about sibling

My younger brother is so rude and disrespectful to my older sister and me that I feel so bad. Like we do argue often but I am trying to change that but he doesn't. My older sister doesn't argue and she does so much for us like she picks him up nearly everyday after school and etc. but he still talks back and seems so ungrateful. When he never has to do something like and always destroys the mood by saying negative things and not apologizing. I don't know what to do anymore. I feel so bad for my older sister since it's like her last year before she goes to college and she can't even do some stuff becuase of him and she had to walk home in the past unlike him. I talked to him before about it and that he should be more grateful and how can he act like that. Talking to my parent is not really a option cuz... He's a pretty two face and etc. Is this normal?
Trigeda 6 years ago
Even if he is two faced, shouldn't your parents have trust in you and your sister? I know I don't know you're life situations, but I little discipline from the parents don't hurt anyone. Tough love is one of the best types of love honestly, he'll understand when he's older that you are just looking out for him. Having a little brother of my own, I would whoop his if he repeatedly did what your brother is doing.
kelsicorn
6 years ago
i'm so sorry, really! tho he is human too just like us, and u need to understand that. and tbh this is normal. we all have feelings, and we all have different ways of reacting to things. does he get bullied or anything in school? does he surround himself with good people? people act a certain way for a certain reason, and it's usually because they're going through a hard time themself. maybe keep an eye on him for the next few days, if both of you r in the same school. see what he does? also, mayb keep an eye on content that he's watching, if he's quite young and especially in this day and age; it's so easy to get influenced by the crap put out for the world to witness. btw, getting your parents help is super important in these situations. tho if u think it'll make it worse, just sit down with him and talk to him face to face. be careful how u talk to him tho, don't say things like 'why r u so ungrateful', that'll only make him retaliate and fight bk. it's so easy to lash out on sumone who's acting stuck up/rude/harsh for 'no reason' when not knowing the rl cause of it. as much as he is rude, be kind to him, but be firm. don't be too nice and do everything for him, or else he may take advantage of it. mayb tell ur sister to not pick him up from school for the next few days? or give him the silent treatment if u know wat i mean. as u can probs tell i'm not an expert, but no matter wat happens BE PATIENT. he's ur brother after all, u know u love him no matter what. ^^