I AM SO DISSAPPOINTED

HI its has been a long time ... I am still very much in fandom  ...recently or  not recently I have been seeing comments on my stories  very rude comments with even more rude commenters who think I am their father's slave or something .

I rarely complain about anything as you guys know I write for myself it lessen my stress and helps me to relax ,i gain absolutely nothing from my stories   except those mentioned above so when some very rude person comes insults my characters whom I built with love I can't take it anymore ,yes you can criticize my spelling mistake, my grammar errors, ask about fluff or  angst, give suggestion or ask me to explain something, I can accept all those but when you start from first words of your comment till last sentences to insult ,curse my character, my reasoning ,my damn bloody biases my way of writing I can't take that .I don't take from anyone not even my parents but when some one I don't even  know asks me no demands me to explain my silly characters and says she won't accept my silly reasons either we have problem. I was always thankful to my readers always accepting their  criticism always respecting them but this is beyond rude and I  can't tolerate it . I am just heart broken so I am thinking about deleting my stories but it doesn't seem fair to new readers so I don't know....

I want those new in fandom to read my stories i always told myself I won't delete my fics no matter what because I remember I had so many problems when I get to fandom ,must of the fics I liked were deleted but now I know why some of the authors left ...there is a thin line between fiction and real life most of the time some people mistake that line. I write fanfiction...so if anyone HAS any issues with jaejoong or yunho take it elsewhere .the way those commenters say for example :

"jaejoong doesn't deserve yunho"  I think they have some personal issues with jaejoong or my biases so take that elsewhere .my fics are not flawless they have flaws that's why they are fanfics and that's why I am not a pro writer who sells his/her book if you want one of those kindly go and buy it but I doubt that you enjoy it because you rude commenter are always searching for bad in things and people ....

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nunu_la #1
smile always :D. ignore those hateful comments but take those that can help to improve yourself. i'll promise i'll try to read and understand your story, in bright way :D
katayoon2 #2
Don't be upset... . Just ignore those ..yes. .they must have a problem with these guys. ..and wanna decrease it with insulting. ...we support you. .
I'm a new in this fandom. ..and there is some cases like you that pissed and deleted and. ..i'm sorry for them who satisfied with discomfort the others. Wish u the best author shi. ..^______^
shizukanai #3
I can understand that you're upset, I would be too. When I first started writing, I tried really hard to ignore it but as time went by, people got even more rude and demanding at some point.

Criticism is okay, but some are just plainly rude and insulting and they seem to think that us authors live solely to write according to what they like. But stories don't always go the way readers like it and they have the choice to just stop reading, but of course some people choose to be s instead and leave insulting comments.

It's good to stand up for yourself at times and tell downright rude people off, you don't need readers like that. If they can't respect you and your work, they don't deserve your respect either.

I wish you the best for your work. Hwaiting!
Bleak_night #4
Hi i understand what you mean, i mean readers shouldn't be rude but hey this is world we live, if we always care what others say then we can't live peacefully... And i thinl they're just telling you their option i mean you're and will the author of your stories and no one have right to judge you because you write them for yourself... You know i feel sad too when someone wrote that they hate my character in story... I mean we made them with our heart and then someone simply say something on it... This hurts... But seriously i'm not a good writer, infact i'm only have two 66 subscribers so i'm not referring to myself, but lets take you as an example, you're stories has so many readers and i heard your stories are good so its obvious their someone who'll jealous or won't share the same thought but believe me, they just like to show their expression but if they are forcing you, bashing or insulting you then you should take an action against them... You know you don't need them as you write for yourself so keep doing it and don't let the world step on you... But personally i didn'y witness what they write but still i think they are just telling you what they thing... Don't take them to heart...

I'm random person found your blog and couldn't keep calm reading that you were heart broke by comments because i feel that too...
Filialim #5
I truly understand where you are coming from .... Never can understand the need to be rude for the sake of being rude over something that is just a fiction. I mostly is a silent reader especially since I normally just read completed fics. But I do read sometimes comments left by readers which are totally nonsense since they are "scolding" the author of the fic only because they are unhappy with either the characters or storyline. I feel like telling them to just chill and smell the coffee. If they don't like it - just stop reading the fic.
Anyway ... I love your story. Please please don't delete them eventhough I never really comments on them but I assure you I enjoy your way of writing.. I already appreciate so much the fact that you accepted my friend request ... So yea ... Just ignore those obnoxious folks and stay for us your fans who love you and your stories ...
cutepenguin #6
Whale >.< but when negative comments???means they feel the story???like me???when I get angry in the story???I write things like "Yunho deserves better than Jaejoong"...but when authors reply...I'll tell them that it's how I feel in that story...

I think if it's angst...and the author gets this...it's good...because this shows the reader feels...

But there are those who just are negative...ignore...block...they are not good influences to anyone...readers and author...so just ignore them...block them and delete their comments...
Sounds so ostrich? But we want to be happy writing for others here...if we want to face reality...we'll be living our daily life...

So don't take those people to heart...life is too short to care for those people...ignore them...

Penguin gives you a YunJae fishy...
143yunjaeAKTF #7
its alright dear..
some people really think that they are so goddamn smart making criticism into insult, and keep forgetting that this is a fan fiction(where writer can freely do what she/he wants in the story) site where all aspiring writers to experienced authors freely offers their master piece with out expecting any. this just show how idiotic these kind of people are..


lemme hug you~~(and here some chocolate kisses and bananas for you coz they can improve good mood XD~~)

AND don't ever DELETE your work, if they don't like it, it's their f*****g problem not yours cause your not writing for their sake but for your own entertainment and pleasure...AJA!!

and please kindly tell that basher of yours that if he/she don't like the way you portray your character/ bias why not write his/her own story and leave your story alone....


that's all i wanna say and hope your feeling better already. KEEP WRITING!! FIGHTING!! XD
UknowMi #8
*hugs* i understand how u feel, encountered some despite my the fact that fic is the boring one but anyways, just ignore them and continue to do what you love, continue to write, there are just some readers who are too attached to the char, or the story, different emotions build up so just let them be and continue to share us ur stories and all the best to everything, your really an awesome one so don't waste your tym on those hehehe hwaiting!!! *hugs*
angeljaejoong #9
Hugs to you chingu yah~~~

I understand what you feel... They got too emotionally attached to the characters that they forgot what they are saying anymore. Somehow its good (since you touch them) but sometimes they forgot that their comments directly affected us. Bashing our character is kinda synonymous to bashing us as well. I hope they realize that we are letting them see the world that we created. And the process of creating it takes time, a lot of love for our OTP and hell of work. It's easy for them to say that "hey you should just ignore it" but they don't have any idea how emotionally attached we are to our stories. Readers sometimes became too demanded and too critical that they act as if we gain money from writing for them. Like we are their slave or something.

Most of the authors I know left not because they don't believe in our ship but mainly because they can't stand disrespectful fans.

I just want to let you know that I admire you as an author and as a friend. You have a patience and I hope you continue to have that. That's something I admire from you.

Take care chingu and Im just here. XOXO
MynnieYumi #10
Ignore them.
They don't know how to appreciate others works, that's why they don't write for they were too coward to receive any critics.
If they do writes, they will understand why an author did this and that.
If they are authors, they won't say such things.
Again, don't listen to them because the more you listen to them, the more heartache you will be.
Don't argue with them either because the more you argue, the more it shows how you are on the same level with them.
Remember, you and them, are not from the same league.
myungyeon9293 #11
don't listen all sh*t they wrote author. i love your stories so soo much, i always admire your FF :) and there's so many people that love u and your characters more than that pabo rude commenters
nowadays so many rude kids around aff T.T
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