Dear friends, today the K-pop world is in mourning.

We lost a jewel, an overall artist, a great performer, a tremendous singer. I’m in shock even now and I wanted to stay silent but I just couldn’t be indifferent. His voice always made me smile, it was so unique and beautiful and I think it’s safe to say he was one of the best vocalists out there. He was a great performer too, every time he gave his all and he really managed to wow us all. He was kind, he was funny and he was beloved…

And all that didn’t matter because depression took him away from us.

First of all, I would like to express my condolences to his family, friends and fans. Shawol’s stay strong!

In the light of the tragedy, I hope the fandoms come together and remember the angel that Kim Jonghyun really was. He truly inspired many of today’s artists and I think it will be beautiful to see unity for once.

I hope this will make everyone think twice before addressing malicious comments towards K-pop idols. As you all know by now, the K-pop industry is a dark one and things are never as bright as they seem. So please, next time your ‘oppa’ goes out with someone of the opposite or tries to live a normal life, don’t bash him or his friends. You don’t know what he’s going through, what’s in his heart and mind.  Words hurt more than daggers and you don’t know when he can be triggered in doing something like Jonghyun did. Please, they’re humans with real problems, bigger than your jealousy.

Also, if you suffer from depression, surround yourself with the people dear to you and talk to them. Talk to your family, your friends or ask a professional to help you. There’s no shame in that, everyone deals with problems. If someone who’s depressed comes to you for help, don’t brush it off like it’s nothing because this is a very serious issue. Depression can be hidden very well.

I’ve almost lost my grandmother because of it and I’ve dealt with depression episodes when I was younger. It .  I had suicidal tendencies too but never did anything because I was too scared. Now I wonder: what if I had the courage, would it be all better? And the answer is no. Suicide does not stop the pain; it just transfers it to someone else.

Goodbye Jonghyun, you will live forever in our hearts. Heaven must sound beautiful with you up there, angel. I hope you found peace.