I'm scared in my own dorm.

So we have a refugee in our dorm, he's like 29 and we are all 19-22. He has been nice in the beginning but because of a cleaning issue with the other guy in our dorm things have been tense. He was aggressive and threatened my roommate with a broom just a few months ago and has gotten a warning by our landlord. Then things went well for a while and since the time I refused to talk to him (I was very sick and couldn't go to uni and therefore I was very angry and didn't want to be the dorm mom again for his whining) he has been acting crazy again. He puts my stuff from the kitchen in from of my room and even undone dishes, also when they are still full with water!

Yesterday I wanted to watch a popular German comedy movie with my friend and we just wanted to have a beautiful evening. Then he came home and put my things in front of my room again and I put them back and he rudely put my pot (it's a big one I got from my grandma, probably older than me and used to be very expensive!) in from of my room and I lost it. Before I asked him if he could stop that and my friend asked him too why he did that. My other roommate came down when he heard me yelling at him and tried to talk to him but that guy just kept finding excuses and became more aggressive. I said I didn't want to talk to him more than once and more than clearly but he kept trying to talk to me and I said I didn't want to talk with someone so antisocial (don't know about Englisch but in German it's some kind of curse word, it has a bad meaning) and he became more aggressive. I closed my door and he stood before it and I was so scared. I called the police but they were on his side, he put himself in the poor refugee bag and I stood there seeming as if I had something against refugees. They even called it kindergarten and ignored the fact that I told he had been violent towards our roommate and his gf before. They ignored the damn sight before them and that was me crying and shaking terribly.

No wonder people in Germany don't trust the police anymore. I'm still scared, I spent the night in my friend's room and will go to a friend's place in two days, because I have technician appointment  on Tuesday in my room and I will lock myself inside. The landlord can't do anything because he's not allowed to throw him out. But he will  have another apartment ready by 1st Dec and place him there. Until then I will have to live in fear in my own room.

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verinchen
#1
What the ?! Ist er jetzt weg?
Gwentree #2
Oh my goodness, I'm so sorry this happened! I wish there was something I could do, but I can only hope with all my heart that you can stay safe for the little time you have left in this situation. Hopefully he won't be any worse before he gets moved. Best of luck, and know there are people who agree with you. I for one work with refugees, and this behavior should never be accepted regardless of whether or not the aggressor is a refugee. They are still people, and they should be held to the same standards.
fangirl4ever
#3
Please stay safe. He might use his refugee status to gain sympathy while doing harm to others
teufelchen_netty #4
das ist sowas von typisch. die armen assylanten v.v
an uns/ dich denkt da keiner.. ich hoffe für dich, dass er bald weg ist (in seiner neuen Wohnung) und du wieder frei leben kannst da
NoonaYoung
#5
OMG, he is insane and the police are so ist, I mean I don't know how he told his sob story that convinced then to did him over you. This is just ridiculous. I mean police who received the call should come for your rescue and get they defended the wrong guy. So stupid and idiotic! Please stay safe Angel, somewhere far from him. Dec 1st is still a long way to go tho. Someone please send this guy to have a mental checkup. This is a threat tho to all of you in that dorm.
viweivi
#6
Omg i'm so sorry to hear that!! I can't believe the police are on his side are they crazy? This guy is mentally ill and I seriously need you to do sth about this. Record his actions, provide any proofs you can have to bring him down. He's a refugee and he should have known not to mess with the native first!!! Hope everything will be ok soon
DGNA_Forever
#7
Oh, wow. Be careful! Stay safe♡.