THIS IS THE 1st BLOG FROM: THE DRAMMA SERIES 

So I decided to write this series of blogs 😀 lemme remind you abt the rules:                                             I'll talk abt a theme that I think it's relatable to the majority. You can read ma opinion on it and comment your own to the comments down below. ALL comments will get +1 comment reputation. However my favourite will get +3 and will get mentioned on the next blog. I'm not a psychologist nor someone that you should always agree with, so you can also argue with me as long as it's civilised. Hate comments will be deleted and blocked. YOU CAN ALSO REQUEST THEMES YOU'D LIKE TO TALK ABT! IT'D HELP ME A LOT. 

Soooo let's start with our first theme! Today I'm going to talk abt crazy shippers. I decided to do two parts of this theme since there are two types of shippers: the Idolxyou and the bxb/gxg shippers. 

Today we'll talk abt the idolxyou ones. What triggered it? BCS LUHAN GOT A GF AND EVERYONE WENT CRAZY. Like seriously, I'm starting doubting humanity...... When I heard that Luhan got a gf I was like *swipes fake tears out of her eyes* "ma baby boi is a man now". I was soooo happy abt him. But I saw that I was the only one that reacted like that.... a lot of people took it by heart, threating that they'll commit suicide and even some parents complained on Luhan that he took away their daughters happiness. Like calm your , sit and think for one second:

What did Luhan and that girl he's with do wrong?

Did they kill someone? No. Did they offend someone? No. Did they do sth illegal? No. So Whyyy instead of being happy for him, that he found someone, are you being butthurt? Like seriously? Well ik it's not the best feeling to know that your idol crush is taken but come on! YOU'LL NEVER MEET HIM. You can always dream yes (I do that too) but till one level. When the idol and his gf get bad comments bcs of your dreams then boi/gurl you crossed the line. Ik that many don't realise it but..... Idols are humans too. You can get boyfriends/girlfriends all the time and yet you don't see idols running after you asking you to break up with your partner and spread hate on him/her. You wouldn't like it would you? Imagine if you were that girl that Luhan is with. You wouldn't like it if people would threaten to commit suicide if you don't end your relationship with him right? You wouldn't like it if Luhan or you would get hate bcs of it right? 

Then why do you do it?

As a fan of an idol you should do everything to protect him. And yet you're doing the exact opposite! Honestly it pisses me soooo off. This isn't of course only abt Luhan. I just used him as an example. I hate people like that that are wayyyyy too much daydreaming rather to come down on earth and act mature. 

Look, I too don't like it when an idol I like isn't single anymore. I too joke with ma friends that I'll have to break up with him and stuff. But that's it. Not further. I'm not saying that I'm the perfect human and everyone should act like me, but pls act similar. Love your idols, but not too much. Respect them and their privacy. If they wanna be with someone, it's their choice. Not yours.  

Have you ever met a person like that? What do you think abt this problem the idols have to deal with? Pls write on the comments. 

Sooo that was ma first blog out of this series. Ik it's kinda ty but I promise it'll get better with time! Pls do write on the comments your opinions, I mainly do this to conversate with you guys. 

Anyways thanks for taking the time to read ma blog 😄 till the next one which will be the part two of this one. Till then, have a nice day and pls be safe 💖💜