atleast unfriend me if you're going to block me jfc

I really wish there was a list/way to see all the users who blocked you. Because there is a list to check of the users that you blocked, but not the other way around. And it would have be very helpful today when I checked my "friends blogs" section, and saw a blog title that seemed interesting, so I clicked it. Once the page loaded, it said the blogpost had been removed/was unaccessable. The title was kinda controversial so I went back to click on the username to see maybe if the person posted why they took down the blog.

 

Turns out they didn't delete the blog. They just had me blocked. Without unfriending me. 

 

So yeah, if you are going to block people, at least unfriend them first that way they dont get notificatins for your posts then have to wonder why they can never access them. 

 

And the person who blocked me was someone I actually went WAY out my way to help in the past. I guess maybe I posted something once upon a time that I guess triggered them and instead of talking to me they just blocked me. Whatever. I wasn't very close with them anyway since I hadn't checked their posts in a few months anyway, so I'm not sure how recent or long ago they block me, nor do I know why. 

 

I just wanted to say this that way in case anyone in the future decides to block me, you know know I request you also unfriend me that why I'm not confused as why I can't read your blogposts. 

 

 

(p.s. if you wanna know who blocked me, pm me who you think it is and I'll tell you if you're wrong or right. bc im so pissed I needa rant. Even if we never had a conversation but u are curious, feel free to message me bc I'm friendly its okay.)

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KaihleeLo #1
I can understand blocking and still being friends. I’ve blocked friends before on other sites to avoid unnecessary notifications/spams.
wonpokemon #2
that is so weird.
i always assumed if you blocked someone it would automatically unfriend you or something.
sad to know about this with you. D;
Chocoholic_Exo-L #3
Why? The. Heck. Did they send/accept the friend request to begin with? Rude....
KaisuMarissa #4
wow.... that's just so ing rude! They seriously could had atleast told you the reason why they have blocked you
tipco09 #5
He\she might have blocked you by mistake. I know I've inadvertently unsubscribed stories I like very much only to find out later , when I check why the person is taking to long to update. I think its better for you to "talk" with the person himself so as not to exacerbate the situation.
1bakedbre #6
Whoa. I'm really sorry you experienced that..people can be so lame, example 'I still wanna know when you update and be a creeper while hatin you', how petty:( Don't know who it is but I hope you cheer up buttercup. Fighting!!!
yogurt96 #7
wow wtf that's rude af
WhiteBlankey #8
Its alright! We're forever friends! Right?
Jignog #9
I feel like as someone thats in their 20's, you act quite immature. It sounds like youre trying to convince yourself that you arent an , but you really are if youre actually telling people via pm who the person is. AFF isnt a place for harassment, its a place to share your ideas and stories. Please keep it that way.
Soso87 #10
I know you're so pissed off and you have all the rights to be and I would be too BUT an advice from a friend please just let it go and forget it as you already told how you feel about what happened, don't put your energy and lose it in ppl you don't care about them. Lastly I wish you a happy day :)
Seokyeong #11
Huge reason why im not a ppl person to begin w. esp if they do tht after gettin supprt/help in the past
lalophobia #12
actually, I have more to say about this post.

This post seems like a move, while hiding behind this idea that you're not a , when you've made some mistakes that show otherwise.

"And the person who blocked me was someone I actually went WAY out my way to help in the past. I guess maybe I posted something once upon a time that I guess triggered them and instead of talking to me they just blocked me. Whatever. I wasn't very close with them anyway since I hadn't checked their posts in a few months anyway, so I'm not sure how recent or long ago they block me, nor do I know why."

Just because you did something for someone doesn't mean you're not a and doesn't mean they owe you anything. Also you're relying on assumptions here, this "triggered" idea to brush it off like there's no way you could've possible been a , it's probably their fault. Then you contradict yourself by implying emotions with the first sentence, and then further acting like a to say "whatever, I wasn't close with them anyway and hadn't checked up on them." Also you end it with this note about talking behind their back. Friendly? No thanks, you sound like a back stabber. And to further explain, this whole post is a move and a callout post. You make it seem like you're this high and mighty person and you're friendly and nice, when it's so painfully obvious you're not.

this isn't anything about me, this is literally just a critique of this post in general. no matter who it's about, you still contradicted yourself and showed your true colors, which aren't the ones you think you're showing.
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