I am so pissed to the point where I'm just so tired ;v; Since I like writing, I'll just vent myself thru this lol. Mind that this can be offensive, but I don't mean any, trully. 

Probably most of you know the war that EXO-Ls and ARMYs have since 100 billion years ago right XD Well, the most recent ones are the ones pissing me off. Yknow, about Kai making a vid and some antis being nasties and whatnot. It's not the nasties that I care, but--OKAY JUST BRINGING IT UP PISSES MY OFF ;V;

First of all, when I see some aeries talking about how the immature (only) armies are judging how Jongin breathes and such by saying things like even the way he breathes is forced (tell me how you even force breathing) and blablabla lol, I laugh and all that coz I mean it's kinda funny in a slightly upseting yet amusing way, but clearly, those fans are probably minors either in age or brain, so it's not worth wasting our breath on. I just don't like seeing the aeries making it such a big deal (when I say big deal, I mean mega big deal in which you can't stop until you see the other end rot in hell), tho some made them into funny light jokes. Ofc, some fans like to vent like I do rn, so I still understand. 

After that, some armies pull the victim card (practically this happens in every fanwar in every fandom, so not surprising) and starts saying 'remember when--" "back then--" "you did this too--" and such, and well I personally don't care the shiz that the immature community of aeries or others did coz it doesn't make you innocent in the very least. HOWEVER, this wasn't what pissed me off, I mean it's normal to see this everywhere in both sides of any fandom. What pissed me off was after I saw all of these aeries reasoning and venting about how immature some armies can be, I SAW AN AERI TALKING SHIZ ABOUT HOW THEY PROUDLY STATED THAT WHEN OTHER IDOLS ARE DEPRESSED AND CUTTING THEMSELVES, EXO ARE WINNING DAESANGS STILL AND--Okay, stfu man, don't make EXO lose just because of your sh*t karma. I HATE it when the overbearing pride of the fandom drags us down. And don't talk about how awful other fandoms are towards ours when you're no different from those dirtbags. You mean well somewhat, I get it, but not in this way, I beg of you. There are many other better ways, and I pray that we are creative enough to find them ;v;

Anyways, the point is--I hate seeing both fandoms (not in whole) trying to differentiate from each other (in terms of innocence), trying to prove how one is more righteous than the other, while practically both are essentially the same in this context -_- (in my opinion) These two have different colours even, like for example, why would you compare a bird to a dog as if they belong in the same context and as if one is trying to copy the other?

Ofc, immature fans everywhere cannot be controlled and will always be there, but this is just--IF YOU SAY THAT YOU'RE A LOYAL FAN AND WHATNOT THEN DID YOU NOT KNOW THAT EXO SAID THEY KNOW WHAT WE'RE SAYING? SEHUN EVEN SAID THAT WHEN THESE KINDS OF THINGS HAPPEN THEY GET EMBARRASSED IN VLIVE--DO YOU WANT TO EMBARRASS THEM? OR ARE YOU JUST SO PRIDEFUL THAT YOU PUT THEM ASIDE AND LET YOUR EGO RISE WHILE THINKING THAT YOU'RE DOING SOME CHARITY WORK? Yea, I don't think so :v

Also, once again--immature disses and whatnot IS NOT worth out breath or single attention. Also, pls don't go on and act all 'my legends will slay all and win all the daesangs and awards and--" yea, and then you go on and say that EXO are humble--YES THEY ARE, BUT IF THE FANDOM ISN'T THEN--you get what I mean, right? :v I personally dislike it when fans just go all 'I'M SURE MA BOY/GIRL IS GONNA GET THE BEST DANCE PERFORMANCE AWARD TODAY' and then when we lose after their great, confident boast, they all go 'MA BOYS/GIRLS ARE TOO GOOD FOR THOSE SMALL AWARDS' okay--logic is that if you're really good, you'll bag every nominees okay -_- Competition is real, business is real. The music industry is still business, and in business fluctuations exist, some can go up and some can go down. If some goes down, then it shows two or three possibilities: we should either work harder, or our idols should work harder because clearly something is wrong. "Our boys DO work really hard! THEY DESERVE EVERYTHING!" yea well, other groups are working hard too yknow ;v; that reason isn't enough, I mean competition is there for reasons, everybody works their off. 

All in all, just focus on being the better fan, slowly by slowly. Yes, it's a process. Yes, every fandom has it's own rotten spot. Yes, the bad ALWAYS stand out more than the good, it's almost like a curse. But if you know that it's that bad shouldn't you start picking up the garbage from now? I mean, please, this has to stop ;-; I want to stop, others want to stop, our boys want us to stop. I'm not trying to act righteous, but I'm trying to salvage every drop of it if possible -_- I'm trying, others are trying, we all should be. 

Some might have to learn how to not diss someone's group, while some might have to learn how to not diss another fandom, and some have to learn both lol 

Think of it this way. I quote from my ARMY bestie, it's just like this: Two persons each have a boyfriend, but instead of focusing on their own boyfriends, they keep looking around at other girls' boyfriends and put down each other's boyfriend -_-

YOU DON'T DO THAT ;V;

If you don't like it, then don't pick your nose into it then complain for something that you did on your own -A- If you don't like it, stay away from it and don't say anything, just focus on your own, simple, no? ;v; If not, then you better start practicing now coz you're not making your boys proud, but yourself. 

Once again, this is just my opinion. I may be doing something very wrong because I can trigger fanwars thru this (dear God I pray not)

but I'm just trying to convey a message that we should just mind our own, you know? Like, let's just love ;v;

You love your love, i love my love ;v;

you look at your boys, and I look at mine ;v;

and I'm very sorry if I offend anybody, I really am

I'll correct myself too, so I hope that we all can help each other out

I hope we can all hold hands some day ;v;