What's up guys!

    Welcome back to the most random and Scattered blog ever created. Today's topic is going to be ...men.

So a little backstory on how my week has been...

I've been dating this guy and he was pretty nice. He did cute little romantic things like brushing my hair behind my ear and saying I was pretty. Barf. Looking back on it I feel like a high schooler all over again. I was blinded by a childish Fairy Tail...

Well long story short he dumped me on Monday. Dumped me through text. And I wish I could say that I was strong and didn't cry but we all know I bursted out crying like a little baby. And I'd also like to say that I was a seductive b**** who slept with his best friend but I didn't. I mean how little respect you have for a person to break up with them over text. And how small are your balls to?

Yeah so that was my Monday... but wait it gets better. So I'm writing this at about 11:15 p.m. on Thursday. Three days after my ex boyfriend, let's call him Mitch, up with me through text. Can anybody guess who decided that they were going to pop right up on my messenger bubble? It was my of an ex-boyfriend... let's call him Moby. So Moby texted me a link to a YouTube music video. The video was pretty much a boyfriend saying to the girlfriend that he had wish that he had been better to her when they were together... can somebody please gag me with a spoon? Now I can't say that movie with a bad boyfriend but he wasn't good either. He never cheated, he never physically or verbally abused me, or made me do something I didn't want to do. He just had commitment issues. Issues that led him to not speak to me for 2 weeks while making me think that I had done something to push him away. Now I know better.

Okay! Now that I have bored you all with how my week went. Let me drop a little bit of my personal opinions.

1. I want to say f*** all men but that's not fair. You can't blame a group for the actions of the few.

Moby and Mitch aren't bad people. They just did stupid things. We all do stupid things.

2. Stop blaming others because they were able to fool you. You only have yourself to blame.

Do you know how many times I've wanted to get mad and yell and curse at my ex's? But I don't. What would be the benefit? Nothing. I was the one who didn't want to see the signs so I let it go farther and that is why I got hurt.

3. Listen closely to this one... you don't need someone else to be happy!

You don't need a significant other to make you happy. If you rely on someone else to make you happy then you are not truly happy. You also won't be able to make them happy. No I'm not saying to turn away relationships. I'm saying don't let them control every aspect of your life and how you live it.

There are so many other things that I could say but I doubt anybody has the attention span to read all of this, unless you're specifically looking for boring relationship advice. 

Now all of this was typed through a voice to text app. If it seems there are some run-on sentences and parts that sound weird, chalk it up to the app. It's 11:30 p.m. and I don't feel like typing.

Alrighty then! I'm going to go to bed cuz I work in the morning! This is my first post on here and I hope you guys like it. I'm going to try and post frequently... even if it's boring! Good night or good day!

Stay positive my lovelies!