i see fanwars as mothers/fathers (fandom) who brags their kids (kpop group) at each other on a playground telling them how their kids are much better and more talented than the other parent's kids then soon they would fight and pull at each other's hair off or curse at each other just to prove their point. while they do that, their kids are at the background playing with each other HAPPILY because they're FRIENDS who LOVE and SUPPORT each other. 

it's just sad because the innocent fans are dragged in the messes that the others caused and they're the ones who deals with the damage and apologize. while others continue to say WHY SHOULD I APOLOGIZE or APOLOGIZE? NOT HAPPENIN' BRUH.

though, in my opinion as a quiet coconut on twitter, it's not just exo-ls who should apologize on the daily fanwars happening because i see and read other fandoms tweeting about exo, too. i admit too that what some exo-ls  say are way out of line and i, as an exo-l, feels ashamed of what they are doing. it's all happening on both ends - the hate. 

why can't you all be humble parents and be happy for the other parents' kids and congratulate them if ever they did something good or achieved something great? you have no idea how heart-warming it is to see all fandoms supporting each others groups and congratulating them. but nooooooo.... instead all you do is COMPARE COMPARE COMPARE and that your favs should be the one on TOP. 

stop the hate, bruh. like seriously. it's honestly exhausting to see other people fight. apologizing isn't that hard, too.

two words = happy ending = new start. "I'M SORRY."

but who am i kidding? the cycle of hate and fanwars is never ending. even if you tried to stop it, some immature fans will only trample you and hate you even if you have nothing to do with all the hate. 

i'll just hang here up at the coconut tree and watch you all parents kill each other while your kids play around and have fun. 

master coconut away!