Lost - for lost souls Part 2

Hello!

Today I decided to write about friends, and specifically my experiences with current friends and friends that are not friends anymore. ToxicVixen gave me this idea, of sharing more of my experiences and how I dealt with them. Let me know in anyway if there is something you want to talk about! (you could comment, send a wall post or a PM.)

Friends are important right?  Weither you have 100 close friends or just 1 Best friend. Friends are important. They can enrich your experience and unfortunately sometimes make it worse. Let me explain. Sometimes friends can be your cheerleader, you partner in crime. Which is great until you realise that they are not your cheerleader or partner in crime. I have already spoken about an Ex friend of mine in an old blog before so I won't rewrite it again.

After highschool I feel that friends are even more important in day to day support, especially when you are under the stress of begining to have to adult. This is me right now. I feel that I have so much to do, and sometimes it's quite scary, and there is 3 kinds of support. 

1. The one that is there to listen to your troubles. It is very important to unload your troubles. It helps you feel less crazy to be stressing about what you are sterssing about. Or someone to say don't think like that, it's not true.

2. The kind that helps you find a solution. Often when you are in a stressful situation where you can't see and exit, it is nice to have someone to point out where the exit is.

3. Lastly physical support such as just foing with you to do what you are scared to go. Somepeople don't think about this but it's important! Its makes a difference to have someone know there is someone there!

But what happens if your friends don't help you at all? 

I think I have to continue later... I am sorry that it ended on a cliffhanger vibe:( But let me know if I missed another kind of support!? 

 

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ToxicVixen #1
we all have that one friend who does nothing tho, i dont even know if they should be called a friend or not
sleepingprince
#2
What you say is true but at some point I think and feel that its hard to actually find true friendship .