The reason I left the KPOP Coverist Community on Facebook;

Mainly because people started lashing out on me because I wasn't pro gay marriage. Most of them--well, actually all of them came from the coverist community.My gay and biual friends told me that they were unfriending me and I was like 'go ahead'

It's not because I'm not pro against the idea means I am against all of the LGBTQ community. Anyone who is close to me knows that I love gay people more than straight people but I still have my own mind to think about the issue. I was raised differently from them and them from me so of course we would have to have different views to it but what I hated the most probably was how they called me close-minded. I am sorry, I never knew that if they were able to talk about how pro against it means I can't talk about me being against it. Am I really the close-minded one here?

And with that issue, I felt unwelcomed. Since, they slowly unfriended me just because I had a different view on the issue. I am not the type of person who stays quiet when I know I am capable of speaking my mind so yeah. That is why I thought of leaving the community for good and collaborate with only those who remained kind to me. Those who did not outright hate on me. .___.

I just felt like sharing it .-.

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chimaniecricket #1 Jul 7, 2015 23:35:33

I think it's great to share your opinion. I mean if they unfriended you that just means they weren't your true friends. I have to agree with your situation because I was raised up in a religious environment.

ChaoticDarkAngel #2 Jul 7, 2015 09:29:55

Now that's not right: You see I have no opinion really on gay marriage since it has no impact on my life what so ever yet at the same time I don't automatically accuse people of being 'bigots' just for not agreeing with it. That's childish on your friends end for unfriending you for a matter of different opinions.

But goes to show there are some people that aren't worth chasing after right?

*Don't mind me by the way: Just when I hear people getting treated like this because of different view points I feel for them you know?*

Isakatsura #3 Jul 7, 2015 09:29:08

What? -.- People have different opinions. Just because the majority likes something, doesn't mean we should like it too. As long as you didn't comment mean things or insults about the topic, they don't have the right to lash out at you.

gnldud #4 Jul 7, 2015 07:18:53

Well, that's unfair.. Whether you're pro or against the idea of gay marriage, lashing it out on you just because you have a different opinion sounds childish. Cheer up, they just don't worth befriending tbh.