Ok so I wrote a story that named no names but it was about a couple in a very unhealthy relationship. This story was in answer to ALOT of Yunjae stories with these two people in ridiculously unhealthy relationships but staying because love conquers all. This made me upset.  No one should stay in a relationship that is abusive be it physically, verbally or mentally.  NO ONE not even if we feel this couple is perfect for each other.  The point of the story is to show that you end up losing yourself and lose that initial spark that may have attracted the person to you in the first place. 

After that story I got a bunch of comments about how mean and evil Yunho was in the story.  Again I listed no names.  I wanted you to see that someone should leave if you are in an abusive relationship.  I had Yunho as the victim as much as Jae.   So started to write a second story and it's based on the comments I got from my no named story. The funny thing about that story is readers are already making up their minds about how this story will end before it's even written.   So I gave a less open ending to the unnamed fic to help with the closure for that story. 

Then I got this lovely message:

You how dare you! I don't know if you can call yourself a yunjae fan but writing stories about cheating and jerk yunho like what a bastard he is!! If you're a fan you wouldn't portray yunho in that way. I'm of all you yj shippers saying you're there can but you writing a story that doesn't even do them justice. It's as if you wish yunho to be like that in real life. I am hurt and offended like writers like you ! I am just one brave person that come forward to confront you like this others probably want to but they can control their anger but I just can't. How would you like it if someone portray you like that, gosh so many of you portray yunho badly and always innocent jaejoong and with changmin or Yoochun as a good guy!​

So I responded:

How about I portrayed no specific person as a cheater you put Yunho in the role of a cheater that is what you decided when you read it. If you read further Yunjae are still friends. They just realized that sometimes you can't go back and you have to move forward. I am a Yunjae fan however if someone is being abused they should not stay in a bad situation. This is where this story is from. I understand your frustration with negative portrayals of your favorites. But love comes in many forms sometimes it isn't romantic. That is all I have to say on this topic.

And this is the finally response:

You were the one that chose to portray yunho in that way, of course the person should live the relationship if it becomes abusive . But my frustration is not com here. It is from writers like YOU who takes on this cliche stories and attack yunho every chance you writers gets ! Imagine if someone portrays you like that I used to be a jaejoong biased but I can sand the way you writers portray yunho. At the end of the day he's a human being to with a heart not some low life of trash. You are certainly NOT A YUNJAE FAN my dear and that's the truth. You may be delusional to think you are but you are not ! 
Anyone attacks yunho or jaejoong in anyway or disrupts the yunjae otp I will respond back 

Good day to you I hope we never cause paths again. I will never read your stories. There are more worthy ones !

And this blog post is my response.  I have no problem if you do not like the story.  There are plenty of stories out there that I don't like but I keep it moving because nothing is ever going to be liked by everyone. So feel free to never sully your eyes with my writing ever again. I understand and thank you for even reading the first time. Because you feel that your bias is attacked is pretty sad but we all feel deeply about a lot of things even if they are imaginary.  I never said Yunho was a bad and evil person. I never said either of them are anything.  You chose to put Yunho in that role you saw him in.  I do not believe anyone is 100% evil or good, we are all 100% human.  As such we make ty decisions that have long lasting repercussions everyday.  Cheating doesn't imply evil or being a low life trash.  But if you want to call a cheater that then that is on you. I will away be a Yunjae fan.  I'm so sorry but don't get to make that call about who I am a fan of and that is the sad truth for you.  I am quite happy in my real world where I cheer for those to two to be in a happy and healthy relationship even if it is not with each other. Only thing is please do send me the more worthy ones because I love a good Yunjae story.  

So in conclusion to those that read this. Please do not confuse But Did You Die! as a direct sequel because it isn't. It is a separate story that was inspired by the comments from For the Best.