rude

Hi everyone,

I felt obligated to write this message to everyone instead of replying to every single message I get regarding why my stories arent available anymore. The reason is simple: people's rudeness.

I dont really mind you all asking me for updates. I am not one of these people getting mad over a short message with simple 'update soon' like other authors here. If this is how you express your eagarness to read more, then I am really fine with it. But telling me to "ing update faster cuz I am waiting so long already" is another thing.

I know I update rather rarely, be it because of my personal problems or pure laziness, and I am sorry if you have to wait. But people, I didnt force you to read my stories. I also dont get paid for this. I have to work everyday to earn money and writing is just another thing I do in my spare time. It is not my fault you have more time to scroll through AFF than I do. 

But even if I do not update, it doesnt give you right to be rude towards me or another person. I am seriously fed up with that angry and demanding posture people have on Internet. You dont even bother to spend 5 minutes to write why you like my story in the first place but demand a chapter which takes me more than 3 days to write since I am not a native speaker. That is not going to make me run to my computer and write, not to mention the ill mannered attitude.

And it is not only readers crossing the line novadays. Authors telling readers to shut up and wait arent any better. Cant we just use a proper way to communicate without this unnecessary insults and ill tone? Is it that hard to express yourself and say properly why you dont like something or want it? For God's sake, the person on the other side is a human and has feelings. Just realize how upsetting your message can be before you send it...

I hid my stories because I got a message telling me to finally move my and start updating cuz 'how long can you wait', right? Well, it surely didnt convince me so I thought giving that person a cold shower could help. The stories will be available once again starting from friday. But if I will have to come across this kind of disrespect towards me as a person, human being, again then I will take them down for good.

Peace people

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sweetypiee #1
Sigh //face palm// //face door// //face table// I actually thought that how writers feel that is why I will type thanks for updating instead.
( not directing you but I really hate this type of attitude even tho I don't write on AFF so I had to)
Dear respectful people,
You people really need to be patient and stop being demanding sheesh. People have their own lives like working and everything. People need to rest you know so stop asking for more. What's your problem? She writing stories is good enough. Don't need to be an unappreciative brat. If u are one of those rude ones who make her feel like this and reading this, I'm telling you SHAME.ON.YOU.PEOPLE.
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Don't worry about them, I think there are more people support you here!! Fighting!
yixingunicorn
#2
I totally support you dear...there are lots of rude and demanding people out there... tsk...
Akay1992 #3
Omg I panicked cuz I thought you deleted the stories. I'm kinda relieved that you're putting them back up, but it's SUPER upsetting that you've been getting those kind of messages. How rude. Even as a reader, I get annoyed, looking at those kind of comments. I can't imagine how much more frustrating it would be as an author, who spends a lot of time on writing chapters.
It seems true that you aren't the most regular updater (I don't even know lol. I haven't been following your stories for a long time :3)...but eh, you have your own life and have things to do. It's not like you live for writing fanfics anyway. ...I seriously don't understand those commenters...that just shows that they have no life lmao.
But anyway, I want to tell you that you're an amazing author, and I love your work (baekhyun, baekHYUN, BAEKHYUN hahaha)! Also considering you're not a native English speaker, your writing makes you all the more admirable. Be strong!
dnmzsff #4
I'm really sorry to hear that :( I panicked earlier when i can't open your stories. Tbh, i really love your stories and you're one of my favorite author here. I hope you won't delete it, because i already fell in too deep with your stories. Stay strong!
Baek_Tricia #5
I find it amusing how those ppl do not have time to comment about the story yet bother to spend time sending rude comments
namyumnam
#6
I don't really write that much, but I know how hard it is to pull the words out of you. I try writing sometimes but I couldn't get to write anything. That's why I have huge admiration to all the writers especially the good ones like you. All your works are your masterpiece, and it takes a lot of effort and time to create one. I hope that rude person learns from this and apologizes to you.
Silencedshadow #7
I'm really sorry to hear what has happened. :( it must be really stressing to have someone send you those comments. The sad reality is that not everyone is empathic, patient and kind. Most people have selfish tendencies that make their needs and wishes more important than anything else.
You are right, you have no obligation towards anyone to update the stories. I think people don't realize that and the fact that it takes a lot of time, free and precious time, to write a story, and update it regularly. I don't always have time to read and comment, so I have no idea how you and other authors manage to write long chapters like you do. It amazes me, and I'm thankful and I admire your hard work. It brings you no profit, and you still do it, so i'm thankful. I hope you get an apology from that person.
joytotheworld16 #8
wow, i cannot believe someone wrote that to you! the entitlement of some readers is ridiculous. i'm so sorry you have to deal with such rude people. :(
rmmb13
#9
oh i understand you. those kids dont even know what a real life is and how hard is to earn money. they should at least respect that this person is sparing her time to write instead of taking this free time to rest or spend with her family and friends. it takes a lot of effort to write when you can actually do something else for yourself in that few hours left after the work hours. i can understand you because i am like you too. i barely have time to update my story because of my work and even if i have free time i would rather spend it in real life. i am already spending hours in front of the computer at work, i really dont want to think and write something anymore after i get home :D eventhough i have heard or encountered rude people in internet,i still get surprised how much they can be immature and aggressive to people they dont know anything about. poor those people. dont mind them . you still have readers who can patiently wait for your amazing updates. you are my fave author in this site ^^
oyahaeee
#10
Its okay to mad. Those people are just immature
Racabbit91
#11
I couldn't agree more.. People these days are getting rude and selfish.. It's your story, not theirs.. It's not like you work for them.. Ignore them, sweety.. I believe there are more people who appreciate you and your work and respect you as THE author of the story.. They always have choices, and if they don't like your, I'm sorry, "late update", they can always leave your story alone and not said something rude to you.. Be strong, girl!! I'm with you.. ♡♡