who needs a man?

 

So I'm gonna rant here about the horrible creatures called men. Seriously, who will ever understand their logic? I mean, I was perfectly fine alone, as a single, and I didn't ask for this whole pain in the the guy turned out to be.
I met him in the pub I went to with my friend. He came to me, we started talking, then he asked for my number and I gave it to him. The light in the pub was so poor I barely remembered his face and how he looked like but he was funny and seemed good looking so I thought 'well, who cares' and gave him my number.
He called the next day evening, asking if I'd like to drink some coffee with him. And I agreed, having nothing better to do. After work I went to the place we agreed to and sitting on the chair, waiting for him to come, I turned around and saw him walking to me. 190 cm tall, hair brown and a little long, freely falling on his forehead and into his eyes a bit. His clothes were on point with the white button-down shirt and jeans. He smiled at me and when he sat down I saw his blue eyes I haven't seen at the pub.
In one word, he was so handsome I actually started questioning if he was the same guy I've met that day. And of course from the confident me I turned into a mess of stuttering and all that stuff. But he was so good at handling the conversation, he joked, remembered everything I've said to him at the pub, it was amazing. Then he insisted he pays and asked if I want to go for a walk with him. I agreed because damn, you don't refuse someone like him, do you?
It was already late and I had to go home so he proposed he would drive me home but I said no so he walked me to the bus stop. Then he said it was actually surprisingly good time for him and we should meet again some time because he was having fun. I agreed and then we hugged as my bus came.
It was one week ago.
Since then I haven't seen him, I didn't receive any of his calls or messages. It's just like I hadn't met him in the first place. I mean, if you really enjoyed someone's company, wouldn't you want to meet that person again? Especially after saying so to that particular person?
So, the stupid woman I am, I wrote to him, asking if he wouldn't want to go out and drink some beer. I've done that yesterday and still didn't get any message back. Or maybe I did one - he doesn't ing care and I just made a fool of myself for thinking so much about it the whole week instead of focusing on my work.
Geez, I hate men, they're just so irresolute I can't... And they say I'm the horrible one who's deceiving guys. Well, maybe I just got a taste of my own medicine lol.
Gosh, if I sound like a frustrated 14 years old girl, then I'm sorry but I feel that way now XD I hate wasting my time on stupid guys like this.

Let me just finish it with the beautiful Andy because I need some beauty in my life to cheer me up XD

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hyokyo_stories
#1
We might meet someone like that once ini a while. And they're just passing by. Of course it irked us, but just don't mind them.
You'll be fine
taelighted
#2
I wanted to leave a comment here but if you look on emchan's comment you can just imagine I said the same thing, seriously. Just wait a bit and see how it is. And as for now, don't mind that guy :)
nad1411 #3
I think its normal to feel like that when this kind of thing happened. At one point you will forget. I tell myself i shouldnt let my heart open to soon. Easier said than done but atleast it remind u to guard yourself. Dont worry, youll be okay
aemilius
#4
I wouldn't worry about it too much. I mean, that's easier said than done, but perhaps he has a genuine reason for not responding to your text. All I'm saying is give him the benefit of the doubt right now; don't just assume that he's a jerk. He /MAY/ be one, but you don't know that yet. As humans, it's so easy for us to misinterpret things.

(I personally just try to stay neutral until I am informed enough to have an opinion and make decisions. Which is why I'm not worrying about my on-the-way-to-becoming-good-friends friend, who has been avoiding me for a few weeks.)
Ballerina_Belle
#5
That was horrible :/
joytotheworld16 #6
aw that really ani, i'm sorry! :( but like you said, you don't need a guy. sometimes it really is a blessing to be single because
you learn how to be happy on your own. the right person will come along in his own time, so don't worry! just think of this as dodging a bullet. ;)
Pikachu22 #7
Unnie you don't need that man!!!!! You deserve better or maybe he's just busy? Doing what? But whatever who cares where he is
krazymonster94
#8
Sadly there's guys out there like that. Maybe his phone is off? Idk but if he's ignoring you then forget him, not worth your time.
Omgsh its Andy!!! Those beautiful angelic eyes!!! Ahhhhh